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My mom kept crying because my dad's cancer was continuing to progress and we all knew this would probably be the last time we'd all be together.
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My brother and his family were down in Florida visiting my parents...
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Mom couldn't stop crying because she kept thinking about how it was probably dad's last Christmas (it was).
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On our last night we took family pics by the tree.
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...my dad's best friend Roger and his wife Bonnie for dinner. Roger is British and my dad's version of Grant. It was really sweet to watch them hang out and interact. (Sadly, Roger passed away just a few months after my dad in late 2018.)
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This ornament is really cute. Love looking back at old photos. (Who would've guessed that about me, right?)
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Compared to this flashback pic from the late 90s!
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Happy Thanksgiving from the Battjers! <3
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Later that afternoon, I picked up Brett and we went to hang with Dad in the hospital.
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My dad's brother Bruce and his two sons Chris & Steve all came to the hospital to visit my dad. All the Battjer boys in one place!
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...my parent's video conferencing with newly arrived baby Sam back in DC.
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Cute moment catching...
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Cut to 7am Christmas morning!
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My parents had rented family beach house in LBI!
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On Sunday we headed over to my cousin Chris' house!
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Lotsa boy Battjers & Dexter the dog!
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My brother and I thought we were going to be all hot shit and outshoot the old guys, but it turns out my Uncle Tom and his brothers all brought their own handguns and PRESSED THEIR OWN BULLETS. They were all crack-shots.
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Later that evening, we got dressed up and headed to the wedding!
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My brother dressed up as the Man in the Yellow Hat!
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Wait, why he laughing?
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Facetiming with my parents in Florida.
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Went to Barnegat Bay Beach with the fam.
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After a long day of swimming and skiing, we'd all pile into the awesome-smelling cedar hot tub!
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Fishing with dad! Modesty has never been my strong suite.
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Fun watching my parents be grandparents!
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...the sun finally came out on Wednesday.
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Bealls & Battjers!
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Your kid has a kid!
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...to visit with Bretty, Amy and my parents!
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Grandma came down on Saturday to BBQ and hang with the family.
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...to spend Memorial Day with the family. Bretty playing tug-o-war with Maddy while my dad takes orders for the grill.
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Back at the house that evening...
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Lunch on the back porch with the fam.
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Post Christmas breakfast! The weather forecast was calling for heavy snow and by the time we'd finished eating...
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Pre-dinner holiday photo for my dad's holiday newsletter!
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Around 4pm we all got cleaned up for company and even humored my mom and put on the matching sweaters!
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...that my dad got one as well! Hahah.
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Three sets of Battjers!
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Waiting for plates.
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Pizza dinner on the back patio. Mmmm.
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Brett & Dad (and dad's mustache!).
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Adding in Sherwin and Maija!
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The bride and groom with the parents: Brian & Stephanie and Lee and Diane.
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ALL the Battjer boys! Me, Brett, Brian Sr, Bruce, Chris and Steve.
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Family photo.
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Also found a bunch of fantastic old photo albums. I snapped a couple of pics of my favorite pics. Here me with my parents and brother. I think this was from my 5th birthday - which would make it August 1981.
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Here's us having a early afternoon Jersey Shore dinner. My brother, Amy, their friend Evie and our cousin Kristie had all come up from DC together.
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...and smoking! (My brother and my dad are twins!). We hung out for a few minutes laughing about how it was only a matter of time before...
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On Saturday afternoon, Meredith and I took the train out to my parents house in NJ so that we could spend Christmas with my fam! I brought along the Wii so that the whole family could play (which we ended up doing for hours on end). Here's my mom and brother getting ready to square off in tennis. But before they played, we decided that we all needed to...
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On Friday morning, I had breakfast with the fam. And then it was time for my brother and I to give...
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On Tuesday I met up with my brother, who was temporarily living in NYC for a few months while on a consulting gig, and our parents to go see The Producers on Broadway. It was AWESOME! (Thanks, Mom & Dad!).
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On Sunday I took the train down to south Jersey to hang out with my family down at my parent's little shore house in Mannasqaun. Here's my brother and his lady Amy and my parents about to get their lunch on.
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Something was wrong the can opener and my dad ended up having an epic battle against this can of cranberry sauce. Check my brother pointing at the mangled-ass shape the can was in when Pappi finally managed to get it open.
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I got up to help him out and was told that he didn't need any help "figuring out his own camera, Goddamnit!" So I took some photos of everyone waiting. Hahah.
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Turkey time!
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Here are the fruits of his labor though. Well worth the wait!
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On Monday (the day after my birthday) I went down to meet up with my parents and their little shorehouse near Long Beach Island in southern NJ. Here's my mom, brother, dad and Uncle Bruce chilling on the beach at LBI.
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After the ties were fixed, it was time for family photos out on the back deck. Here's Brett, Pappi, mom and me.
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Dad, Brett and Bruce. Right after this picture was taken, Bruce turned to me and said "Hey, you're not working right now are you?" Me, "Nope, I'm still looking for an interesting job. Why, you know of something?" Bruce: "Nope, but I just realized that I have to go on a business trip and I'm not going to be able to make it to Aruba to use my timeshare there and it's too late to cancel. Do you want a free week at a nice resort in Aruba?" Me: "Ummm, yeah." Bruce: "Cool, if you can find cheap tickets on short notice, it's all yours." And that's how I ended up in Aruba during the last ten days of January 2004.
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In almost matching outfits no less (again!)
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Hahaha. Saturday I stepped outside and caught the Bobsey Twins smoking.
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"Now throw your hands in the air and scream!"
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For Christmas day, my grandparents and one of my mom's sister's family (The Carricks) came to our house. Christmas dinner in the house y'all. When I say "Hey," you say "Ho!" Now when I say "Je" you say "sus!"
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Holy red family photo, Batman.
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My fam hung back and worked at destroying the pie and cake table.
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Mom and dad getting their breffast on as well.
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My brother always gets shit because he looks, walks, talks and acts like a little Mini-Me version of my dad. I tried to snap a sneaky picture of them watching TV together while eating matching sandwiches and wearing matching white shirts and blue baseball hats, but I started laughing right before the cam went off and gave Brett time to flip me the bird. They look like the goddamned Bobsie Twins though, right?
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We fueled up and Dunkin' Donuts...
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Nevertheless, we somehow managed to pack up the car and hit the road well before 6am.
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Brett with the fam.
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After a quick change, we headed over to the Opera House for a ceremony celebrating Brett's major.
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On Christmas Day it was snowing like crazy! We piled in the car and risked life and limb (literally!) to drive 45 minutes to Clark, NJ to eat Xmas dinner with my Grandparents and one of my mom's sisters and her family.
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Mission accomplished. My father and my brother pose in front of our handiwork!
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Here's our annual "Family Pic in Front of the Fireplace."