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My mom kept crying because my dad's cancer was continuing to progress and we all knew this would probably be the last time we'd all be together.
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Later in the afternoon, the other Battjers joined us.
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Buddies!
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My dad and Sam are so cute.
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My cousin Krisit and my brother and his family were all down to visit too!
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Did my Uncle duty and taught Max the joys of the whoopee cushion...
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My brother sent me a screenshot of my dad's most recent Facebook post and it made me laugh until I cried. Such boomertastic goodness.
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My mom sent me this pic of her and my dad out to dinner with some friends.
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...Sam did his best impression of Brian Sr!
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My mom and dad when on a cruise in Alaska and sent me this photo.
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My mom sent me this pic of my dad with his best friend Roger (who'd just gotten back to Florida after being in the UK) with Easter Bunny ears on. Pretty good.
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...and they sent me cute pics.
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My brother and his family were down in Florida visiting my parents...
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Later that afternoon, Dad donned his Santa cap to cover his newly bald head...
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...while spending the afternoon with my dad at his chemo appt.
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Mom couldn't stop crying because she kept thinking about how it was probably dad's last Christmas (it was).
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On our last night we took family pics by the tree.
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...my dad's best friend Roger and his wife Bonnie for dinner. Roger is British and my dad's version of Grant. It was really sweet to watch them hang out and interact. (Sadly, Roger passed away just a few months after my dad in late 2018.)
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We turned around and our audience of supervisors had tripled!
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This ornament is really cute. Love looking back at old photos. (Who would've guessed that about me, right?)
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Dad supervised. I love this supervisor's smile in this photo. Lol. (Miss this guy.)
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Compared to this flashback pic from the late 90s!
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Happy Thanksgiving from the Battjers! <3
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Maddy loves my dad.
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...she looked up to give him a kiss. Lol. I love this pic. <3
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My dad had been undergoing chemo and was bald! But he was in relatively good spirts and it was great to see him out of the hospital.
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Was really cute to see them interacting. Right in the middle of taking their picture...
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...of me saying goodby to my dad. <3
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On Saturday I packed up and got ready to drive my new truck back up to NY. My mom took these lovely pics...
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My dad was discharged from the hospital after a scary two weeks. Nice to have him back home!
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Later that afternoon, I picked up Brett and we went to hang with Dad in the hospital.
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My dad's brother Bruce and his two sons Chris & Steve all came to the hospital to visit my dad. All the Battjer boys in one place!
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...my parent's video conferencing with newly arrived baby Sam back in DC.
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Cute moment catching...
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<3
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Got back and got a health update from dad.
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...and my dad holding court in good spirits despite his recent, terrible diagnosis.
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Got to the hospital...
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Happy 70th, dad!
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But there's a whole separate entry for this trip! Dads 70th Birthday
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All dressed up and ready to head to the party!
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....to celebrate my dad's 70th birthday!
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After dinner whiskeys and cigars (shhh...don't tell mom!) outside. Happy birthday, dad!
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He was really happy she flew down from NJ for his party!
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Henrietta stood up to tell funny stories about my dad as a little kid.
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My dad cracking jokes with my cousin Chris.
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...I get the gift of gab from my dad. (Ok, probably from my mom too).
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The apple doesn't fall far from the tree...
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Fun to watch him walk around and work the room.
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...he made the rounds and chatted up everyone and thanked them all for flying down to Florida to help him celebrate.
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And then before dinner came out...
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My dad thanked everyone for coming!
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Later that afternoon, after I'd hosed all the lizard blood off the patio, some of my parent's friends came over early to pregame before my dad's big birthday party!
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Great to watch my parents be grandparents on Christmas.
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...and snapped some pretty good photos of parents...
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Speaking of holiday traditions!
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Cut to 7am Christmas morning!
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While my parents hung out with Max...
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...with my dad.
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My parents had rented family beach house in LBI!
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...be like. Whaaaat?
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On Sunday we headed over to my cousin Chris' house!
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Lotsa boy Battjers & Dexter the dog!
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...the Sandia Peak Tramway...
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My brother and I thought we were going to be all hot shit and outshoot the old guys, but it turns out my Uncle Tom and his brothers all brought their own handguns and PRESSED THEIR OWN BULLETS. They were all crack-shots.
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Mom & Dad OPA!
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My dad making Max laugh. ;) (I'm writing this in January 2019, four months after my father's passing and it's nice to see all these photos of him). Miss you, dad!
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Later that evening, we got dressed up and headed to the wedding!
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Pop Pop & Max
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Mom gave us stocking stuffers with Florida lottery tickets. I won $2 and she offered to buy me out so I didn't have to wait until my next trip to Florida to redeem my WINNINGS.
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Lunch!
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Dad approves of Christmas morning Monkey Bread breakfast!
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...fun age to watch him...
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Pop Pop helping Max put a bracelet on.
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Made to my brother's house just in time for lasagna. Yes!
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On Friday morning, I said farewell to my dad and my mom drove me to the airport.
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My brother dressed up as the Man in the Yellow Hat!
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Wait, why he laughing?
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Max is super into touching and holding where the action is. My brother tried to raise it out of his reach, but he wasn't deterred.
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Facetiming with my parents in Florida.
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I like this picture of my parents.
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The entire Highline, much to my father's dismay! (Much further than we thought it was)
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My parents came into to town to visit for my birthday.
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Went to Barnegat Bay Beach with the fam.
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Dad grilled up some shishkabobs...
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On Friday morning I took the bus down to south Jersey to visit my folks. My dad was excited to try out the hoverboard! Haha.
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On Saturday morning, my parents took me out to Denny's for a goodbye breakfast...
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After a long day of swimming and skiing, we'd all pile into the awesome-smelling cedar hot tub!
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My dad teaching me how to drive the new riding mower he bought! At first I couldn't drive it because the tractor came with a kill-switch underneath the drivers seat that would stop the engine in case you fell off while mowing. But I didn't weigh enough to keep the switch down! My dad wasn't about to mow the lawn himself and so he went into the kitchen and found a really strong magnet, lifted up the seat and clamped the magnet to the kill switch! Blamo, problem solved!

This brilliant move, however, would come back to haunt him later in the afternoon when he was teaching me how to park the tractor in the shed. I went in to far and started hitting the back wall of the shed, and instead of telling me to hit the brake, my dad just started yelling "STAND UP! STAND UP!" thinking the kill switch would engage and the tractor would stop. But he forgot about the magnet he put on and I drove the tractor right through the back of the shed. Hahaha. Famous family story.
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Here's me tandem-skiing with my dad!
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Every summer, my family would drive up to Bow Lake in New Hampshire and spend a week at my Uncle Steven & Aunt Kathy's lakehouse on Beech Island! Here's a shot of Brian Crowell getting ready to waterskii!
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Fishing with dad! Modesty has never been my strong suite.
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My mom is super into activities. On Wednesday, she suggested we all get in the car and drive about an hour away to...
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Later that evening, we hopped in my dad's golf cart...
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Brothers in arms.