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My mom kept crying because my dad's cancer was continuing to progress and we all knew this would probably be the last time we'd all be together.
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Mom couldn't stop crying because she kept thinking about how it was probably dad's last Christmas (it was).
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On our last night we took family pics by the tree.
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...my dad's best friend Roger and his wife Bonnie for dinner. Roger is British and my dad's version of Grant. It was really sweet to watch them hang out and interact. (Sadly, Roger passed away just a few months after my dad in late 2018.)
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This ornament is really cute. Love looking back at old photos. (Who would've guessed that about me, right?)
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Compared to this flashback pic from the late 90s!
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Happy Thanksgiving from the Battjers! <3
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...of me saying goodby to my dad. <3
the september roundup
September, 2017
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On Saturday I packed up and got ready to drive my new truck back up to NY. My mom took these lovely pics...
the september roundup
September, 2017
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My dad's brother Bruce and his two sons Chris & Steve all came to the hospital to visit my dad. All the Battjer boys in one place!
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Happy 70th, dad!
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But there's a whole separate entry for this trip! Dads 70th Birthday
the january roundup
January, 2017
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Later that evening, we got dressed up and headed to the wedding!
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...fun age to watch him...
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My parents came into to town to visit for my birthday.
the august roundup
August, 2015
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After a long day of swimming and skiing, we'd all pile into the awesome-smelling cedar hot tub!
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My dad teaching me how to drive the new riding mower he bought! At first I couldn't drive it because the tractor came with a kill-switch underneath the drivers seat that would stop the engine in case you fell off while mowing. But I didn't weigh enough to keep the switch down! My dad wasn't about to mow the lawn himself and so he went into the kitchen and found a really strong magnet, lifted up the seat and clamped the magnet to the kill switch! Blamo, problem solved!

This brilliant move, however, would come back to haunt him later in the afternoon when he was teaching me how to park the tractor in the shed. I went in to far and started hitting the back wall of the shed, and instead of telling me to hit the brake, my dad just started yelling "STAND UP! STAND UP!" thinking the kill switch would engage and the tractor would stop. But he forgot about the magnet he put on and I drove the tractor right through the back of the shed. Hahaha. Famous family story.
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Here's me tandem-skiing with my dad!
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Fishing with dad! Modesty has never been my strong suite.
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Later that evening, we hopped in my dad's golf cart...
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On Sunday I went out to NJ to visit my family and celebrate Father's Day. Happy Father's Day, Brian Sr!
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...who needed a post-breakfast nap!
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Called my dad from a beach side payphone to wish him a happy birthday!
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Headed back home!
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When everybody is all dressed up my parents like to take a group photo so they can include it in the Holiday email my dad sends around (which is like the newsletter version of this site for older people. Haha).
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Pre-dinner holiday photo for my dad's holiday newsletter!
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Around 4pm we all got cleaned up for company and even humored my mom and put on the matching sweaters!
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...that my dad got one as well! Hahah.
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Blink.
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Three sets of Battjers!
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Couch napping. Here's me doing my impression of my father "ten minutes in the future." He laughed...
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She brought her "new" husband (of 10+ years) Bob to lunch! He is awesome.
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Which turned out to be the same book that my dad was reading because HE had picked it up last time he was at the airport!
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Family dinner.
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Christmas Eve dinner back at my parent's house.
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Uncle Bruce, dad, mom & Elyse!
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My hammy-family all cramming together for another awesome group shot.
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Me, dad and cousin Chad!
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Love this guy.
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We walked my parents from the MOMA over to their hotel a few blocks away.
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Huzzah!
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With the other Mr. & Mrs Battjer!
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The wedding party!
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On the morning of the big day, everyone let me sleep in while they went out for breakfast. Meredith took this photo of my parents coming in to wake me up! Haha.
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Family portrait!
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A little before midnight, the beach party-crew...
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ALL the Battjer boys! Me, Brett, Brian Sr, Bruce, Chris and Steve.
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I rolled out of bed a little past noon and headed out to play "Christmas Golf" with my parents. Haha.
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Family photo.
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Also found a bunch of fantastic old photo albums. I snapped a couple of pics of my favorite pics. Here me with my parents and brother. I think this was from my 5th birthday - which would make it August 1981.
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Chuck took this great photo of the rest of us. Future in-laws!!!
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Now with husbands, son (and a dog!) added!
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On Thursday night my parents came in to town and I took them out to dinner. I look like my mother almost as much as my dad looks like Peter Griffin (The Family Guy). Hahah.
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This pic pretty much sums up how I spent the next two days. Passed out on the beach with a book on my lap.
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Here's the Xmas Dinner pic. Jordan, Jeanine, Pappi, My mom, Dave and Pat Litte and Mer and me.
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After we were done opening presents, we had a contest to see who could turn the Christmas tree on from the greatest distance (the tree's hooked up to a clapper, remember?). Here's me celebrating my win all the way from across the room. My dad said my ability to clap the loudest probalby had something to do with my "callused palms." Whatever that means. hahaha.
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On Friday morning, my dad and I hit the town to do some last minute Christmas shopping.
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On Thursday, Meredith and I took the train out to NJ to my parents. Then we hopped in their car and headed down to south Jersey to visit the Birds (they're my Great Uncle and Aunt). Here's me with my dad.
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Here are the fruits of his labor though. Well worth the wait!
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Big Bri and Steph.
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After the ties were fixed, it was time for family photos out on the back deck. Here's Brett, Pappi, mom and me.
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Check out my blinging imitation Oakley Blades. You're wet, aren't you? (PS - Sarah pointed out that my dad looks like the dad from the Family Guy and I haven't been able to look at him without smiling since).
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"Now throw your hands in the air and scream!"
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For Christmas day, my grandparents and one of my mom's sister's family (The Carricks) came to our house. Christmas dinner in the house y'all. When I say "Hey," you say "Ho!" Now when I say "Je" you say "sus!"
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Turkey Time! Going Clockwise from the front left: G-ma, G-pa, Aunt Sue, me, Pappi, Mami, Chad, Uncle Wayne, Aunt Elaine and Lindsay.
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At dinner, Grant manned the camera and managed to snap a pic of me opening my birthday card...
my 27th birthday party
August 08, 2003
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On the day before my birthday, my mom and dad came into New York City (from Jersey) and took Grant, Tara and myself out for a birthday dinner at Epicurie in the LES.
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...who shit the bed on the next toss by throwing short to my dad (the balloon exploded on his foot). Check me out laughing at him while he gives my brother the ol' stink eye.
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Me and dad prepping for the big 'tater race. (The object is to cross the finish line first. If your pototo falls off your spoon, you're immediately disqualified.)
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Brett was the big winner. Me and my dad both caught NOTHING! NADA! ZIP! ZILCH! (Actually, my dad at least caught two fucked-up fish that just didn't count in the contest so he threw them back. I was the only one that didn't catch a god-damned thing. Bah.) Arrrrgh, matey! Better luck next time!
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Brett with the fam.
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After a quick change, we headed over to the Opera House for a ceremony celebrating Brett's major.
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xmas with the fam
December 25, 2002
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Here's our annual "Family Pic in Front of the Fireplace."
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Grant, Me and Pappi.
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After the Grange Hall, the family all headed back to island for some food and final bonding time.